Yeah…i dont kno where the overweight part came in but yeah, shes not that. Shes rather thin but wanted to tone up and put on about 5-10lbs of lean muscle mass…but “wanting to” nd actually wanting to do it are 2 completely different things. Ive done all i can to motivate in a positive way and lead by example but all of that is null and void is she cant find her own motivation from within. If shes happy the way she is I support that but personally I feel shes not as happy with herself as she lets on to be (but thats a whole ather story) 8 years with someone you kinda tend to kno all there ins and outs.
well if you don’t have a good idea of who you are with after 8 years … I will say watching someone when they are stressed out is a truer picture of what they will ever present under normal circumstances I wish you both good luck though
Thank you @KodiakGrrl. Much appreciated. I have a picture perfect idea of who she is and kno her inside and out. I love her no matter what i just wish she could find the drive, motivation, or goals that she wants and go after them. That part i cant do for her but if shes happy then I’m happy. I personally have never been one for settling ir underachieving. I want to reach my full potential not in just one aspect but every aspect in life. But at the end of the day she’s my wife and i will support her regardless.